I WANT SHINNY LOSERS: “The Art of Dreaming & Patience”

Losing is an art. And the ones experiencing it are real artists of a genre that is somehow least treasured in the world of normal people. How art is defined for laymen: is an experience of something that leads him/her open to new experiences of different kinds. It further leads to cognitive thinking to move on or jumping in to try something.  One’s life has a lot of matters to deal with. It is like a lot of things on your plate but still feels hungry. When things get intertwined, it is difficult to sort them out. The process needs a practice of taking the lanes of these lively matters in a parallel position. It means there are a lot of things going on in your life and you have to balance them to make sure that losing something really doesn’t make you stagnant.

In the world of artistic losers, the language of losing is patience. Patience keeps you close to your human side and makes you carry on dreaming. When you keep on dreaming, you enjoy losing because then losing makes sense to you. And when something makes sense to you, you shine in a gentle way. This is an artistic side of losing that keeps you generating positive and creative vibes to inspire yourself and those around you.

It is suggested to practice letting go to what happened to you in the past. Don’t feel ashamed of sharing your failures with others. Consider losing a different color in your life because it isn’t something out of the planet “earth”. Don’t blame yourself for the things you haven’t done successfully. Calm yourself by saying this to you: Oh man at least you’ve tried. Let’s try again. Reverse the strategy, and try it in a diverse way. The notion behind it must be a journey towards learning, not a destination to survive. Then you will enjoy every color of life from the eigengrau of an eye to the shades of sun.

There are some practices which make you learn how to be uncomplaining for the desire to fulfill your dreams. First, stay positive about anything that makes you feel that you’re doing it for your own self. When your first priority is you, then you will seek the ways to dream about how to attain a specific state of mind for just doing it. And that thing makes you feel calm and sound at the same time. It makes you realize that if you matter for yourself first, then you develop a sensation of respect for others around you. And when you start respecting what others are doing, then it will in return make you gain the same respect from others. What I am trying to say is: respecting others' will and doing let you gain the same in return and life starts becoming a bit easy for you. Whatever a person wants to do and is doing anyway, is a desire for a normal living. And that is perfectly ok to behave the way you think and dream of.

Secondly, when you are on the path of practicing patience, try to avoid expecting anything from others. I will advise you not to expect from yourself. Expectations do not always hurt, but mostly it does. Try to be nice no matter how hard it is going to be for you. Be gentle with yourself and polite with others no matter how much your failure disrupted you and others. A calm and polite acting body is full of beans to grow anything by finding a fertile land.

In the end I want to add, instead of discussing your past experiences, discuss what is in your mind. What you are planning to do and what makes you think about a particular phenomenon. Try to be engaged with books and reading. Make it sure you are not learning how to live but, living your life. Discuss ideas, make conversations interesting. Don’t sound like fools who have nothing new to engage with. Appreciate what you have and move your very body to make it productive that pleases you first and benefits humanity. Being friends with nature helps you find ways for everything you desire for a living of your own choice. It will make you close to humans and everything that is good for mother earth.

Precisely, stay in touch with your intuitions for dreaming. Enjoy the very luxurious side of being human. Don’t forget to design the room for your mental peace. And it, for sure, requires thinking, struggle, failures, patience, sharing, communicating, and last but not the least dreams. You are a loser, a shiny loser of endless ideas and moves. And own this belief that it is normal and beliefs are what you think of them.