Essence of Sharing in Friendships

To understand life, one must have belief in two practicalities of its occurrence; life and death. Every single existence of this planet is based on these two realities. I know I might sound stupid by saying things that are quite obvious to anyone. But everything has a history that can be traced back, explored, documented, discussed and most frequently relatable on different occasions. In similar patterns, humans are counted seldom when they are alive and after they are dead. 

Life is a wave having crusts and troughs depending on a “being” to operate it according to his/her will or just adopt the policy of going with the flow. You have heard of this saying “Friends are life”. Have you ever thought about it? Or you just take it as a beautiful saying, suits with your lips, tastes like candy and smells like a delicious binge of your own choice? I am not going to discuss every single relation of intimacy humans have with other humans. I am interested to discuss with friends “the beautiful creatures” you choose for yourselves. Here comes yourself, among yourselves. You have a different and most interesting self when you are with your friends. 

You share your daily, weekly, and monthly routines with your friends. This sharing is full of gossip about you people (friends). Sometimes minor and sometimes this sharing is too deep enough that the other person feels like whatever has happened, happened with him/her. Friends might be the only creatures that have the ability to understand up to the level you want them to reach.

The purpose of all this debate is to make you feel how essential it is to share yourself with your friends. Share yourself so that you may feel that your whole existence is in the air. You are discussed and normalize being discussed. This practice is as cheerful as we know we always feel light when with our friends. It is your friendship that makes you live at full pace and alive after being physically absent from their eyes. And trust me, it will give you an understanding about your own existence and the reality of life and death seems to be beautiful in front of you. Make your own reality. Make a rosary of colorful beliefs in which your whole existence is resilient to whoever enters in your world.